Guide to Picking Wedding Reception Guest Attire (2024)

WHAT SHOULD YOU WEAR TO A WEDDING RECEPTION?
From dress code to best dressed, here’s your guide to suitable wedding reception guest attire


So you’ve been invited to a wedding reception. What do you wear? Unfortunately, there’s no straight answer to this question, but there are a few guidelines when it comes to wedding reception guest attire.

WHAT IS WEDDING RECEPTION ATTIRE FOR GUESTS?


Broadly speaking, wedding reception guest attire is respectful to the couple and the theme or dress code they’ve specified. There are also, of course, a few general rules for dressing appropriately as a wedding reception guest. For starters, you must never upstage the bride or groom (this is their day, after all). Second of all, you must obey the dress code—there’s simply no reason or excuse not to. And third, you must remember to keep your attire appropriate: a dress that’s too short can be disastrous, as is an outfit that doesn’t fit you properly or that isn’t weather appropriate, and shoes that simply don’t work for the venue.

WHAT TO WEAR TO A WEDDING RECEPTION AS A GUEST


Now that we’ve established the ground rules, what are some wedding reception guest outfit ideas? This depends almost entirely on the type of wedding reception.

For formal wedding receptions


Like most formal occasions, formal wedding reception guest attire usually goes hand in hand with a black tie dress code—think a floor-length gown, heels and jewelry for women, and a tuxedo or a black, navy or grey suit for men.

For semi-formal wedding receptions


Appropriate guest attire for a semi-formal wedding reception includes co*cktail dresses, jumpsuits and some skirt-and-blouse combinations. If in doubt, try and ensure at last one element of your outfit is formal: a beaded or sequined skirt can be paired with a button-down shirt, for instance, or consider teaming a plain co*cktail dress with high heels and shining accessories.

For casual wedding receptions


Not surprisingly, casual wedding reception guest attire isn’t too difficult to figure out; the trick is keeping it smart enough to show your respect to the couple. Jeans and ratty sneakers are almost never acceptable; instead, appropriate casual wedding reception guest attire generally includes pressed chinos and a button-down shirt for guys, and a jersey dress, jumpsuit or short dress for women.

For outdoor wedding receptions


When it comes to an outdoor wedding reception, the key is to really examine the invitation for information (or clues) on the venue itself, as that will usually dictate what you wear. Beach bar bound? Be sure to wear flat sandals. Heading to a rustic farmhouse under the stars? A cotton or cotton-linen dress worn with block-heeled shoes is usually appropriate. Backyard garden party with a marquee? A jumpsuit or printed style should do the trick.

WEDDING RECEPTION GUEST ATTIRE IDEAS

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Need help with your other wedding guest outfits and responsibilities? Check out our other wedding guest guides below:

  • Tips on Wedding Guest Etiquette
  • Engagement Party Guest Attire
  • Wedding Guest Attire for Every Dress Code
  • Wedding GuestRehearsal Dinner Attire
  • Wedding Guest Attire for Outdoor Spring Weddings

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Guide to Picking Wedding Reception Guest Attire (2024)

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Guide to Picking Wedding Reception Guest Attire? ›

For formal wedding receptions

Like most formal occasions, formal wedding reception guest attire usually goes hand in hand with a black tie dress code—think a floor-length gown, heels and jewelry for women, and a tuxedo or a black, navy or grey suit for men.

What is appropriate to wear to a wedding reception? ›

For formal wedding receptions

Like most formal occasions, formal wedding reception guest attire usually goes hand in hand with a black tie dress code—think a floor-length gown, heels and jewelry for women, and a tuxedo or a black, navy or grey suit for men.

How to decide attire for a wedding? ›

How to choose the right dress code for your wedding
  1. Fit the mood. Even if you're not doing a themed attire dress code, the theme still sets the tone. ...
  2. Afternoon or evening. ...
  3. Venue guidelines. ...
  4. Dress for the season. ...
  5. Fashion and comfort. ...
  6. Make it easy to understand. ...
  7. Your wedding, your style. ...
  8. Match with your wedding outfit.

What is not appropriate to wear as a wedding guest? ›

It doesn't matter if the dress code requests "casual" attire, jeans, T-shirts, shorts, flip-flops, and sneakers are never appropriate to wear as a wedding guest. Show respect for the bride and groom by dressing formally. Sabatino suggests that men show up in a jacket and tie, even when the invitation says casual.

How do you tell wedding guests what color to wear? ›

First, get the wording right. Your wedding guests will be looking for your dress code—but might not love being told exactly what to wear. Thus, you should be careful with your phrasing. Alongside your attire, try something along the lines of, "Please indulge us by dressing in white, if you don't mind."

What is the dress code for an evening wedding reception? ›

You can't go wrong with a little black dress for co*cktail wear. However, if this isn't your style, a midi-length bodycon dress, a dressy jumpsuit, or a knee-length co*cktail dress are also great options. Statement jewellery, a clutch, and a fascinator can all elevate your outfit and add a touch of glamour.

Do you wear same outfit to ceremony and reception? ›

While there are benefits to changing your wedding dress before the reception, some brides may prefer to wear the same outfit. If you're unsure whether you'd prefer one dress over two, you may want to consider the reasons to stick with one.

Can I have bare legs at a wedding? ›

I have advised readers that while bare legs are fine even at the most formal events, hosiery also is perfectly acceptable as long as it's skin tone and sheer. I've just returned from a wedding where I wore my new bargain ($10!) black sequined mini and consignment store jeweled black shoes (also $10).

How to answer "Is there a dress code for a wedding?"? ›

“The dress code for our wedding is semi-formal/co*cktail attire. Think co*cktail dresses or a suit and tie or a sports coat.” Tip: Wedding attire can be tricky. In addition to providing a dress code, avoid confusion by letting your wedding guests know specifically what they should wear.

What is the best dress code for attending wedding? ›

Women should embrace wrap dresses, midi dresses or elegant jumpsuits. For men, if it's a daytime wedding, a light sport jacket, button-down shirt and relaxed chinos fit the bill. In the evening, go for darker colors, as later weddings tend to be more formal.

How do you tell people what to wear to your wedding? ›

The simplest way to tell your guests what they're expected to wear is to put a dress code in the invitation. There is a time-honored glossary of dress-code wording short enough to include on invitations, or on a card inserted with the invitation.

How do I start picking a wedding dress? ›

How to pick the right wedding gown
  1. Know your body type and how to dress is. ...
  2. Be opening minded! ...
  3. Think of your venue and location, those will have an impact on the style of dress you should think of.
  4. Be prepared for dresses! ...
  5. Don't take too big of a crowd. ...
  6. Don't try anything on over your budget.
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How do you define your wedding dress code? ›

Below is a complete breakdown of every wedding dress code, explained.
  1. White Tie. White tie events are as formal as it gets! ...
  2. Black Tie. A black tie dress code indicates that the wedding is held in the evening, and formal attire is expected. ...
  3. Formal. ...
  4. co*cktail. ...
  5. Semi-Formal (also known as Dressy Casual) ...
  6. Casual.
Apr 4, 2022

How do I choose a wedding outfit? ›

12 tips for choosing the perfect wedding guest dress
  1. Find out what the bridesmaids are wearing. First things first, do your research! ...
  2. Shortlist your most flattering colours. ...
  3. Avoid cream or white dresses. ...
  4. Make it seasonal. ...
  5. Remember, it's not a funeral. ...
  6. Match with your +1. ...
  7. Stay classy. ...
  8. Find a bag which compliments the outfit.

How do you answer what should I wear to a wedding? ›

3. What should I wear?
  1. “The wedding is casual, so please feel free to wear whatever you'd feel best in!”
  2. “The wedding is semi-formal, so we encourage you to wear co*cktail attire [for evening events] / Sunday best [for daytime events].”
  3. “The wedding is formal, so we encourage you to wear black tie attire.
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