Boutonniere Loop Stem Keeper - How To Do It Yourself (2024)

In the past, we wrote an article about boutonnières and lapel vases. In order to wear these two accessories, a jacket needs a boutonniere loop on the backside of the lapel, underneath the buttonhole, to keep the flower safely in place. Typically only bespoke jackets or some very pricey ready-to-wear garments feature such a loop.

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Now, if you plan to wear a boutonniere, but you are one of the many whose jacket does not have a loop, you have two options: You could either bring it your tailor (some alterations tailors may not even know what you are talking about) or you do it yourself. In fact, it requires neither a tool shed nor expert sewing skills to create a nice little loop. In the following article, I will show you how I add a neat looking loop to the back of a lapel in just a few minutes. Although I consider it to be a very simple task, please bear in mind that you do so at your own risk. Firstly, you need a needle, some thread, and scissors. For this particular loop, I chose a thicker thread that will provide a nice color contrast to the fabric. This way, the loop will be easier to construct and sturdier in the long run. The thimble is optional.

If you want to wear boutonnières but you don’t have a skilled florist or you are tired of wilting boutonnières, then take a look at these silk boutonnières that look just like the real thing.

Secondly, decide where you want your loop to be. In my opinion, the loop should be placed at about 1 inch under the buttonhole. The angle of the loop is not too important, you just have to be able to put your boutonniere through your buttonhole and the loop later.

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Third, thread the needle and make a knot at the end. Now, insert it between the layers of fabric about half an inch away from the position where you want your loop to be, and come out of the fabric at that position. Make sure that nothing is visible from the front side of the lapel.

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Now, make a stitch, form a loop andtiea knot. Repeat this two to three times.

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Once you are done with that, pinch the fabric together with your fingers, and pull on the knot that is about half an inch away. Cut the thread very close the the fabric and the remaining thread will disappear between the layers.

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Make another stitch, then pull the thread so it lays flat. Form a loop andtiea knot at the position where you want your boutonnière’s loop to end. If you have thin thread, you can go back to the other end of the loop, tie a knot, and come back again and tie a knot. I did not do that in this picture because I thought it was thick enough.

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Now, wrap the thread by looping the needle under and around the boutonniere loop about 8 times.

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Tie a knot and wrap it around in the same manner, in the opposite direction.

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Tie another knot once you have reached the other side. Your boutonniere loop is almost done by now.

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Based on the thickness of your loop and thread, determine if yours is sturdy enough to hold a flower. I realized that I wanted it to be a little thicker. If this is also your assessment, repeat the steps of tying a knot and looping the thread until you reach the desired thickness.

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Almost done!

Once more, insert the needle in between the layers and resurface somewhere about half an inch away.

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Pinch the fabric together and cut the thread very close to the cloth. Again, the rest of thread will disappear in between the layers.

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Done!

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Check the front of the lapel – everything looks fine.

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Here are two other boutonniere loops fromA. Caraceni.As you can see, they must be both strong and functional.

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Here are two other boutonniere loops from A. Caraceni.As you can see, they must be both strong and functional.I hope this picture series will help you in making your own boutonniere loop. As you can see, it is quite simple and it really does not take very long.

Good luck with your boutonniere loop and please let me know if you have any questions or send me a picture of your results!

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FAQs

What is a loop on a boutonniere? ›

Boutonniere loop is recognizable Thread on backside of lapel.

How to attach a boutonniere without a pin? ›

If you are lucky enough to be using a suit with a lapel buttonhole, attaching your boutonniere couldn't be simpler. Gently thread the stem or attachment point of the boutonniere through the lapel, being careful not to snag the fabric.

What does a boutonniere symbolize? ›

Similar to a wedding bouquet, in the 16th century, boutonnières were used to ward off bad luck and evil spirits. It was also used to keep bad scents away and was believed to protect against diseases. In the 18th century, however, many wore boutonnières as fashion statements.

What is a flower loop? ›

The flower loop (flower-loop in traditional English tailoring) is the loop at the back of the left reverie of the collar. Handmade, and formerly used to put the stem of the flower behind. The flower that was put through the buttonhole.

How do you pin a homemade boutonniere? ›

Insert the needle at a downward angle making sure it runs through both sides of the lapel. Be sure to stick the needle through the thickest part of the boutonniere, the flower stem. It's important to insert the needle at a downward angle to ensure that the boutonniere stays in place throughout the event.

What are the tips for boutonnieres? ›

Most suits have a small buttonhole on the left lapel which will help you to remember the placement. Place the boutonniere over the buttonhole on the left lapel with flowers pointing upward toward the shoulder. If you are wearing a pocket square boutonniere then place that in the left pocket as well.

What kind of pins for boutonniere? ›

We have used boutonnière pins as they are best for holding your boutonnière in place well without damaging your jacket, but normal pins or clips will be able to do just as good a job. More importantly, you need some good flowers to make sure that your boutonnière is perfect for the special occasion.

Where do you attach a boutonniere? ›

The boutonniere should always be placed on the left lapel, parallel to the edge outer seam, and right in the middle of the two seams. Formerly, jackets had a buttonhole on the left lapel solely to drop flower stems in.

Can you use a safety pin for a boutonniere? ›

You can have the florist(or whomever is making the children's flowers) secure a safety pin to the back of the corsage etc instead of using a stick pin. @julies1949 so you've made/used them with safety pins before? Or… you could use a really strong magnet and attach the boutonnieres on that way.

What's the difference between a buttonhole and a boutonniere? ›

It depends who you ask, we find buttonhole and boutonniere are used pretty interchangeably these days, both are floral accessories worn by the groom and groomsmen. But if you want to get technical buttonholes generally feature a larger focal flower and boutonniere a smaller collection of blooms.

Does the ring bearer get a boutineer? ›

It's up to you whether or not you want your ring bearer to wear a boutonniere during your ceremony. If he's wearing a mini version of the groomsmen's attire, it's a nice touch to keep the look consistent. Your florist can recreate the adult accessory on a smaller scale for him to wear down the aisle.

How the boutonniere should be worn? ›

The boutonniere should always be placed on the left lapel, parallel to the edge outer seam, and right in the middle of the two seams. Formerly, jackets had a buttonhole on the left lapel solely to drop flower stems in.

Are boutonnieres out of style? ›

Although some people believe that boutonnieres are out of style, they are still seen at many weddings and can add a touch of elegance to the groom's attire. While boutonnieres remain a staple for traditional weddings, there are alternatives nowadays. Opinions vary on the current style status of boutonnieres.

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